Here are some wonderful resources for parents to help you deal with your child. These books are available at the public library or at Amazon.com. They will help you to understand your teen. It also helps you to realize that you are not alone.
Why do They Act That Way? by Dr. David Walsh
Get out of my Life, but first could you drive me and Cheryl to the Mall? by Dr. Anthony E. Wolf.
Yes, your teen is Crazy! Loving you Kid without Losing your Mind. by Michael J. Bradley, Ed. D.